Programs

We love our habits more than our income, often more than our life.
Bertrand Russell

 

One of the main aspects of socio-cultural programming is what is called “imprinting.” Human beings are born with certain basic behaviour patterns built in their DNA. Just as a flower will follow a certain series of steps from the emergence of the seedling to the stage of producing a flower, human beings also develop certain characteristics only at certain times in their growth process. These sequences are something over which we have no control.

 

[…]   We are all programmed. Our programs are written in the circuits of our brains by those around us in our formative years, just as their programs were written during their formative years, and so back into the mists of time. Each generation just adding a few more lines of code.

 

It is our ideas that shape our children. We provide what we may consider to be the ideal environment for the child, but our own programming determines what we may consider to be the “proper environment.” Once we have provided the environment we then want our children ton like it, to approve of it, to agree with us that it is “right.” And our ideas come from our culture. And our culture is created by…what? A Control System?

 

There is considerable evidence that “agreement” is also “in the genes.” There seems to be a genetic drive toward communion with others, for speech and preferences and disposition. As newly born human beings, it seems we come into the world with intent to be in agreement with others. But the details of how we go about being “agreeable” is related to the imprints we receive at various stages of childhood development.

 

Everyone carries in their genes, it seems, deep archetypes that are very much like a database program just waiting for someone to input data. The thing is, this database is only open to input for a limited period of time, and whenever data is entered during that time determines how all other data will be evaluated forever after. It will produce over and over again the same response to any set of stimuli that have one or more items that have been organized by the database. Anything that is not found in the database is “discarded.” If the database is not utilized and no data is entered during the period of “readiness,” or imprinting, that possibility goes dormant and diminishes.

 

The higher thinking functions laid over the deep level archetype database, can be viewed as a kind of software that is linked to the database, and must constantly check with it in order to operate. You could think of it as a word processing program with a fixed dictionary and set of templates and you can only write in it according to the templates and you can only use the words that are in the already fixed dictionary. Since our brains are genetically designed to accept imprint conditioning on its circuits at certain crucial points in neurological development, these critical points are known as times of Imprint Vulnerability. The imprint establishes the limits or parameters within which all subsequent conditioning and learning will occur. Each successive imprint further complicates the matter, especially if some of these programs are not compatible with others.

 

[…]    It seems, according to research, the “older” brain structures – those necessary for basic survival, such as the brain stem – are imprinted in the earliest stages of development and that the “newer structures” such as the mid-brain and the cortex develop “superimpositions” upon the more primitive imprints. However, the earlier parts of the brain and their imprints form the foundation for how later imprints are responded to and continue to function after the higher thinking modes are developed.

 

In other words, if you are traumatized as an infant at a crucial point of Imprint Receptivity, it doesn’t matter if you grow up to be the President of the United States – you will still be ruled by this imprint.

 

[…]   The first stage or circuit is the oral-passive-receptive, and is imprinted by what is perceived to be the mother or the first mothering object. It can be conditioned by nourishment or threat an is mostly concerned with bodily security. Trauma during this phase can cause an unconsciously motivated mechanical retreat from anything threatening to physical safety.

 

[…] The second stage, or circuit, the famous “anal phase” is concerned with keeping or letting go of experiences in interactions with others. The second circuit determines how they will expand their identity to include others. The drive of the second phase is to interact with other selves. It is the drive that either brings about the congregation of groups or results in paranoid withdrawal from anyone who is “different.” Trauma in the formation of this circuit (generally from 12 months to 24 months) can result in a lack of social feeling, a tendency to manipulate and exploit others for one’s own gain and cruelty to others whether conscious or unconscious. This is generally a result of a feeling of non-acceptance, that one is missing out on something that others have, the need for approval from others and basic lack of self-esteem.

 

[…]  It is during this phase that the “matrix” forms as a “semantic universe” of verbal structures…a sort of “framework of perception” that we learn as we learn words…It is at this stage that most of our complex belief systems are formed. Everything that surrounds him is raw material for the child. The matrix is, in reality, a gigantic conditioning system. And we insert our children into it through our own actions.

 

[…]  The third circuit/stage is charmingly referred to as “phallic.”  Don’t ask me why this term has been selected over all others but it has to do with the fact that the imprinting stage is associated with the child’s discovery of his/her genitals and this period also seems to partly determine gender role identification as well as one’s later attitudes toward the body and sex. It is also called the Oedipal or Electra stage.

 

This circuit continues to be imprinted and conditioned by symbol systems, i.e. words and concepts, however with subtle conceptual complications. The child is beginning to be able to understand complex symbolism and such things as “now” and “later” and “soon” and “never.” These concepts are intimately connected to the ability to tolerate separation as well as to mourn if the idea of grief is introduced and demonstrated by a role model.

 

[…]   Those who are dominated by the 3rd circuit respond to problems by “reasoning” it out, even if their reasoning is being directed by the emotions of the 1st  or 2nd circuits. When this is the case, they called be called a “third circuit robot” because they simply cannot break free of the emotional content of their rules and dogma. For such people, the rest of the nervous system has, for all intents and purposes, stopped growing.

 

There are two curious manifestations of this circuit. If 1st and 2nd circuits are basically healthy and the 3rd circuit is not traumatized in any notably serious way, but no effort to develop higher faculties is made, the “normal conscious mind” has two basic “tracks.” The [first] one is the desire to use the intellect to prove that much of human experience, even including the reality itself, is delusion or illusion. Everything is mysterious or hallucinatory. The second is to use the intellect to prove that nothing exists BUT the material world and anything mysterious is viewed as hallucination, coincidence or sloppy research!

 

 

[regarding the discovery of “betrayal and deception”]

 

[…]   These circuits had been “turned on” inside me. The only thing is, I KNEW what was happening! I could feel the neuropeptides rushing out of the brain centers, flooding my system and binding to the receptors all over my body. Anyone who has ever been in this position will know what I am talking about.

 

The difference is: I KNOW that it is CHEMICAL. I know that it is a result of a circuit activation that connects elements of a present experience to something deep in the past; infantile responses. I know that the reaction is encoded in the brain, and that the chemicals are released according to a single trigger.

 

If you have a negative experience as an infant in a room painted blue, you will be programmed to react negatively to blue, and whenever you are in a blue room your brain will release the same neuropeptides that were released at the very time of the infantile experience. You won’t know WHY you feel “frightened” or “panicky” or “sad” or whatever the negative experience produced and you will think it is something to do with whatever is going on in that room, or who you are interacting with at that moment, without even being aware that the whole experience is being triggered by the memory of the negative experience as an infant in a blue room. Your mind will seek to rationalize the feeling by blaming it on anything and everything, because the idea that the color of the room could be the cause is too illogical.

 

Sure maybe you avoid blue. You don’t “like” it, but you surely will never admit that it can control your emotions and your experiences. It will be rationalized as a “preference.” No reason, just is. Well, there are a lot of things in our lives that we think are “us,” and they are not. They are programs.

 

Suppose you have a very positive experience as a small infant with someone wearing a blue baseball cap. When you are grown, you meet someone wearing a blue baseball cap. You are flooded with the same neuropeptides that were released in the pleasurable experience of your infancy and you are sure that you really LIKE this person. Never mind that they turn out to be the worst enemy that you ever had. As long as they are wearing that blue baseball cap while giving their explanations for why they did rotten things to you, you will believe them because the same neuropeptides will be flowing in response to the cap, and you will be rationalizing in your mind why you should forgive and forget. Even if they are not wearing the cap, the fact that you met them wearing the cap has already formed a “matching” circuit to the original one…it has been augmented and strengthened.

 

[…]   The most interesting thing about this is that the neuropeptide receptors are found all over the body; you have a “whole body” sensation! You can actually “feel” it “flooding” like a “rush” through your system! But I can guarantee to you that it is chemical. It has nothing to do with higher emotion. And most definitely has nothing to do with objective reality. Your imprinting creates your very own subjective view of the world and maintain it. And it is in this way that we all live in “wishful thinking.”

 

The neuropeptide receptors are also clustered in the gut in very high concentration. We get “gut reactions” according to the programs set up in the imprinting stages of infancy. It has nothing to do with the exact circumstances of the present moment. It has everything to do with the “program” and the response to some clue that turns on the neuropeptides of pleasure or trauma. The receptors are also arranged in clusters along the spine and can be felt as the “raising of kundalini” with the proper “cues” that may or may not be from benign sources. This can also be a REAL initiatory event, but in that case, it is activated from a different center and with different chemicals.

 

[…]    To go against your own programming, to do the opposite of what you feel because you have truly assessed the evidence objectively, is exactly like going through drug withdrawal. And in the throes of withdrawal, the individual will do almost anything to get the “fix” he needs.

Laura Knight-Jadczyk, The Wave, Part 13e

 

 

 

…"Oh yeah? Sez who?" has always been the dominant driver [in me]. No matter how afraid I have ever been, I have always had the ability to just walk into the fire, so to say. And yes, to my way of thinking, taking the risk is better than anything. As somebody once said (I think it was a Spanish freedom fighter whose name I have forgotten) "Better to die on your feet than live on your knees." or words to that effect…

 

…Ark has the idea that it [The Matrix Control System] runs somewhat mechanically - it has a program and when we start acting like viruses, it has sort of an automatic anti-virus feature that puts all kinds of things into motion to deactivate us. But, in a sense, it is mindless and maintained mechanically, even if that mechanical part of it is 4D paraphysical, hyperdimensional,…in other words, sort of like cyborg machines connected to some sort of consciousness that runs them more or less with or without direct awareness. So, with any of us, when we begin to become aware, to act outside of the program, to even THINK outside of the program - because apparently, it can even read THAT factor - all hell breaks loose in our lives. And this is generally, based on some kind of algorithm, specific to our particular programming. It finds the "back door" to our consciousness, our emotions, and it can play one person against another without EITHER OF THEM BEING AWARE that it is doing it! And that is what Ark and I learned very early on…

 

…the Matrix did absolutely everything possible to destroy any possibility of our being together. It was a daily, hourly battle for 6 months, and then, once it lost the attempts to get in the backdoor of our own minds, it then began concentrating on other "vectors" in our lives. We just simply made an agreement that we would tell ALL of what we were experiencing, thinking and feeling at any and ALL moments when things felt "funny." This had to be a complete committment to not fudge, not cheat, not hold anything back. And oh, did the programs ever run. And did I ever have to confess to the darkest of thoughts, and the most amazing thought loops that were set in my head. We gave these programs "names." And we learned how to deactivate them.

 

But the most important part of that process is to SPEAK them, to TELL - because the Matrix counts on us being so ashamed of what we think that we won't tell it, and if we don't tell it, then the other person has no opportunity to respond and say "oh, okay... well, here is the deal that was going in my head, here is the program I was running... here is what was happening..." etc etc. And when we tell, it is important for the listener to really listen and understand, with no emotional attachment, that this is a PROGRAM. If Ark would write something to me that set off one of these "tapes," I would have to say: "okay, as soon as I read that, here is what started happening... here is how I began to perceive things... here is what convinced me that what I was thinking was right..."And sometimes it was pretty awful, suspicious, related to things that had happened to me, done by other people throughout my life.

 

So, it is certainly a process that takes a LOT of understanding and patience and the ability to NOT get triggered. When you are in the listening chair, you HAVE to not let your own programs run ... you have to understand that you are hearing a program described to you and that it is a thought loop.If somebody says to you: "when you said thus and so, I just KNEW you were evil! I knew you were planning to play a game with me and that you were double crossing me..." or whatever. The person who is listening HAS to not respond defensively and say "Well, I never! That is so insulting!" Instead, they need to explain, explain, explain... offer evidence... find out who else ever did that to the person... find out how the "loop" played out in other times and places... discover where the wounds are and accept them and love them and accept the person totally WITH ALL THEIR PROGRAMS, and know that they will run again and again, until a new circuit has been created by not letting them run and produce the old results. So, this is just first level "deprogramming," I guess you could call it. And it takes real commitment to work through it. But the rewards are NOT slight, I can assure you.

Laura Knight-Jadczyk